I would like everyone to raise their glasses, mugs, wine
glasses, milk cartons, pints, whatever you have to SECOND CHANCES. I stand…. Er…
sit before you a woman on a new found mission to make changes to help bring
about B 2.0. With that being said, I would like to focus on the SMILE part of
the Smiling Running Shoes.
Let’s talk about our ATTIUDE people, what type of person are
you?
The ho hum thanks for noticing me and the giant black
cumulonimbus cloud floating above my head pelting me in the eye with hail
and rain. A.K.A “The Debbie Downer”
OR
The it’s my way or no way, here is the plan, this is how we
are going to do things, listen to me… yeah you listen to me. HEY HEY I’m in
charge here. Control, control, control AHHHHHH! (Inset hair pulling out here.)
A.K.A “The Control Freak”
OR
The Hi my name is…. Oh butterfly… that’s shinny…..I like
chocolate….. dinner was yummy….BUNNY bouncy bouncy bouncy…. wait, what was I
talking about? A.K.A “The Space Cadet”
OR Last But Not least …. Drum roll please
The what a beautiful sunshiny day, there isn’t a care in the
world and everything is going my way. Whatever comes will come and I will
continue to roll with the punches. Life is good, sunshine! A.K.A “The Smiley”
So… which one or ones are you. Me? I’m The Control Freak
with a sprinkling of The Debbie Downer and a dash of The Smiley…. Translation….
Not exactly the type of gal I want to be. SO, it’s time for a wee bit of
reinventing.
Attitude truly does make all the difference in the world and
I am living that right now. I’ve had a bit of a tude / control issue over the
past few months and it’s getting me nowhere fast. So I started doing some soul searching,
pulling way down deep into my toes. Then it hit me. It doesn’t matter if we are
talking about a workout, dating, marriage, dealing with the kiddos, baking a
cake or walking Fluffy, your attitude is such a vital determining factor. It is
in fact what people remember about you…..think about that for a second. How does your attitude impact those around you
and the things you do?
If you wake up in the morning growching, grump your entire
way to the gym, kick the treadmill because IT made you trip over your own
running shoes, snap at the customer service rep leaving the gym who wished you
a good day, flipped off the old lady who was driving to slow in the fast lane AND
yelled at your Boyfriend for breathing in the same room as you ALL before 8 am…
what sort of day are you going to have? What sort of day are you encouraging
other people to have?
First of all, you woke up. That is a fantastic start to any
morning, I’ve never not woken up in the morning, but I would assume that would be
a pretty big drag. So paint on your smile if you have to and get your bootie
out in the world all happy like!
Second the gym is a chance to embrace the body you want and
reach the goals you’ve set, this is time to fill your head with motivation.
There isn’t room for Negative Nancy Talk here. Either pump yourself up with
music and words OR recite every digit of pi (3.1415926535),
NO MATTER WHAT do not allow yourself to be invaded by negativity. Aint nobody
got time fo that….
Third, you tripped over your own feet klutz, you don’t have
a broken leg so laugh it off and move on. Do you really think you are the ONLY
person to trip on a treadmill? Um no! You’re probably also the only person who
noticed. This is not a crisis; don’t allow little things to become the giant
elephant in the room. It’s the ole mountain out of a mole hill adage.
Forth don’t allow your words or attitude to bring down
anyone else, that poor customer service person didn’t deserve a verbal back
hand. Smile be happy and leave a trail of smiles in your wake. How do you want
people to remember you? The jerk or the fantastic fabulous awesome person…. It’s
your choice.
Same goes for fifth, remember to respect your elders even if
they are driving 27 mph
in the fast lane. Someone that age use to bake you sugar cookies and spoil you
rotten, so let the 27 mph
thing go. Would you want someone giving the bird to your grandma? Does flipping
off that poor woman really “fix” anything? Nope, just makes you look like a
creep. Don’t be that gal.
Sixth, last but not least, leave your poor boyfriend alone.
Don’t allow him to be part of your war path; don’t ever have a war path. Remember
that he chooses to be with you because he loves you, he didn’t sign up to be
your doormat. So love him, praise him and show him you love him. If you don’t,
I’m sure there are plenty of other ladies out there who would. Now that’s not
to sound all cat fight girl on y’all, it’s a simple fact. If you don’t treat
people well, they won’t want to be around you.
You are in the ultimate control of your attitude and the way
you treat people. Be aware of your words and your body language. The last thing
anyone wants to do is push away those they care about or make them feel like
itty bitty mice. LEAVE SMILES IN YOUR WAKE, be a light that draws people in. I
know for me, when I can make someone smile it makes me feel good as well. It
makes me happy… speaking of happy…
Welcome to The Happypaloosa Project… I’m making the
commitment to myself to live a more upbeat, encouraging, laid back and exciting
life….free of excess worry and constricting overthinking. Today I choose to take
the steps to breathe fresh invigorating happiness into my life.
The Happypaloosa
Project, added to my goal list.
Want
to join this journey with me? Let’s do this thing y’all. Let me know in the comments.
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